How to Make a Man Beg for Sex

You've met this great guy, he's everything you could imagine him to be for the first month or two, and then all of a sudden.........he changes. Before, he would give his all in the bedroom and lick you till kingdom come. He would say how he couldn't wait to see you. He would tell you nice things to make you blush all day at work. He was attentive to you and your needs and did everything you wanted him to and now.........he starts saying nooooo!

Or perhaps you married a guy, the wedding was wonderful with the honeymoon, flowers, and cake..........and then he turns out to be a horror from hell a few months later. Sounds familiar? Read on to see how you can keep your man pleasing you, and how to avoid common mistakes most women make.

Men are attracted to women because of a need to fulfill something in their own lives. Whether you give your man confidence, happiness, money, children, prestige or sex, you are fulfilling

something in him that he cannot fulfill himself. The problem with most women is that they take themselves for granted and they give too much of their best asset too fast. Sure you want to impress a man, but learn to give him very little bits of whatever he loves in you over a long period of time, so he won't get tired of you.


1. Most women make the mistake of making themselves too accessible early in the relationship.
You need to learn how to make yourself unavailable for your man. When a man gets too used to your company, he starts to take you for granted and assumes that you will always be there. Boredom sets in and then he starts to tell you no when you want something, and he'll start to try to control you or he'll just leave. If you already live together, try to find things to do so you're not always up in each others face.You need to keep him wondering just how much you need him..
   
2. Don't ever give your beauty secrets away to him
Girl, don't ever do your hair and makeup in front of your man! Do it in the bathroom or somewhere he can't see. Hair and makeup are an illusion that you control, which probably drew him to you in the first place. It's like being impressed by a magician, and then the magician reveals the magic trick! You're no longer impressed! We polled married women in their sixties, and they all told us that they kept their man in suspense for all these years. One woman told us her man has never seen her without her wig! Even if he tells you he likes to see you natural, he'll get bored and move on to another woman's illusion. Don't always assume he'll be content seeing the "real" you! However you were when you met him is what he's attracted to. Even if you gain weight try to keep yourself looking fabulous.

3. Never overbuild his confidence!
One of the worst things you can do in a relationship is overbuild a man's confidence. Be very sparing when it comes to giving him praise or compliments. Praise God instead. Men need women in this area of their lives because the world is constantly trying to beat them down all the time, regardless of how strong they are. When you praise him too much, he'll think he's the strong one and you're dependent on him. An over praised man will look to add more women to his list because he's just too much for you! Make him earn his compliments. Give it little by little. Make him work to stay in your presence. If you got an ugly man, don't try to dress him up for you because he'll think now he's too cute for just you. You'll fix him up and he'll tear you down. Plus you'll attract other females to him. You be the pretty one and let him be himself, and he'll cherish your beauty forever. If you got a handsome man, make him wonder if he's handsome enough for you. Don't over praise and don't fix up: fix you!

4. Don't marry him or let him get you pregnant too fast!
Men love the chase, a woman who gives in finds herself going from a happy hot girl to being his miserable dish cleaner. It's like a game for most men, if you're a hot girl , they will want to take you off the market by getting you pregnant or marriage. In their minds, this makes you theirs, so now they can go out and chase something else because they got you already. Beware of men that have low confidence, unattractive men, or guys that give you money.

5. Have a plan for your relationship
Know what you need in advance before you enter a relationship. Know your strong points and what makes you appealing to men. What do they want from you? Don't just be with someone, have a detailed plan of what they can do to make you happy with them, and how they are going to keep it up. Make sure you get what you want. It's either you or them. Take my word on this. If he spends on you, try to get cash and save it, so you'll have something if he wants to play around later or leave you. This way you're never wasting your time. Most men put on an act for the first 30-60 days (especially if you don't give up the coochie quick!) and then they revert to their real selves. Learn how to keep them in their act by perfecting your own.

6. Learn how to use your C.C.
Do you know how to use your coochie control? Are you giving it up on the first date or every time your man wants it? Then you obviously are not using your C.C. No matter how good you think you are in bed, there's someone out there who will give it to your man better! Learn how to be sparing when giving your man his rewards. It should always be a reward for something good he's done for you. If you're giving him too much, he'll get too used to it and find other excitement elsewhere. She might not even be better than you, just something different from his usual everyday woman! Don't think he'll stray if he's not getting yours. If he's going to cheat he'll do it it regardless! Don't settle for routine sex from him. Hold off until he deserves it. Then he'll be hungry every time he gets it from you!! Never let your coochie become ordinary, it's priceless!

7. Be careful of public shows of affection
You love attention and so does your man, regardless of what you think or what he tells you. You might think he's affectionate in public, because he wants to show the world how much he loves you. By showing too much affection for him in public, you are drawing other females attention to him. They usually will want to compete with you. Worst if he's a man you fixed up. He will take their numbers behind your back, or do all of your friends when you're not looking. This tend to happen a lot to pretty girls. Let him show his affection for you in the bedroom. Then, it's all about you and you get what you want. Your guy will usually want to kiss you while another female is looking. Just tell him "not now honey."   If it's real affection, he'll work your nana in the bed when you get home!